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It is a sad but unavoidable fact of life that people with unearned advantages give little sign of realizing that they were born with an edge. Whether willfully or inadvertently, those who’ve had it...
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View ArticleWhy You Should Commnicate Directly with Others
I’ve been doing executive coaching for a long time. That’s where I work with an executive to help them navigate tricky problems, develop stronger leadership skills, understand their business better,...
View ArticlePick the Correct Medium for Your Message
Having sent my first email at the age of 11, today’s topic has been an issue for me for a long time: it’s the super-important ideas that different ways to communicate have very different...
View ArticleHow to Be Radically Candid: Q&A with Kim Scott, Part 1
Get-it-done Guy: Today I'm here with Kim Scott, founder and CEO of Candor Inc, and author. Her latest, Radical Candor, is a guide to compassionately productive management and relationships. Kim,...
View ArticleHow to Be Radically Candid: Q&A with Kim Scott, Part 2
In Part 1 of Kim's interview, we learned about the meaning of radical candor and the crucial importance giving and receiving caring feedback in the workplace. This week, we're back to discuss how...
View Article5 Sneaky Tips for Sending Cards and Gifts
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View ArticleKeep Your Roles Separate by Switching Hats
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View Article5 Ways to Expand Your Child’s Social Skills
In my pack of 8 kids, several are very outgoing and socially savvy, one is shy, a couple are well ahead of their years when it comes to good social graces, and a couple more are socially appropriate...
View Article10 Ways to Celebrate Best Friends Day
One of the greatest joys in life is having a special person to call your best friend. Your BFF is by your side through thick and thin, and loves you unconditionally no matter what is going on in your...
View Article5 Ways to Manage Your Child's First Crush
I’ll never forget the first field trip I chaperoned for my oldest daughter, now 24 years old. Her Kindergarten class went to a local farm to have a hayride to the pumpkin patch. I was so excited to be...
View ArticleNegotiate More Money with These Simple Tricks
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View ArticleEliminate Vagueness for Stronger Business Agreements
They say the Devil is in the details. Have you ever wondered what that means? I looked at the details really closely and there weren’t any devils there. There was an old ATM receipt, some belly button...
View ArticleHow to Deal with Coworkers Who Complain
A listener writes:Oh, Get-it-Done Guy! Do you have any recommendations on how to deal with a coworker who complains incessantly?Ooh!! We just love complainers!! No, we don’t. We hate complainers....
View Article6 Productive Alternatives to Privilege-Checking
It is a sad but unavoidable fact of life that people with unearned advantages give little sign of realizing that they were born with an edge. Whether willfully or inadvertently, those who’ve had it...
View Article7 Signs It's Time to Let Go of a Friendship
Despite what the Spice Girls would have us believe, it’s not true that friendship never ends. Research actually confirms what we’ve all experienced: most middle school friendships don’t even last a...
View ArticleWhy You Should Communicate Directly with Others
I’ve been doing executive coaching for a long time. That’s where I work with an executive to help them navigate tricky problems, develop stronger leadership skills, understand their business better,...
View ArticlePick the Correct Medium for Your Message
Having sent my first email at the age of 11, today’s topic has been an issue for me for a long time: it’s the super-important ideas that different ways to communicate have very different...
View ArticleHow to Be Radically Candid: Q&A with Kim Scott, Part 1
Get-it-done Guy: Today I'm here with Kim Scott, founder and CEO of Candor Inc, and author. Her latest, Radical Candor, is a guide to compassionately productive management and relationships. Kim,...
View ArticleHow to Be Radically Candid: Q&A with Kim Scott, Part 2
In Part 1 of Kim's interview, we learned about the meaning of radical candor and the crucial importance giving and receiving caring feedback in the workplace. This week, we're back to discuss how...
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